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Showing posts with label success. Show all posts
Showing posts with label success. Show all posts

Monday, September 27, 2010

Smuggle Success and Prosperity into Your Mind for Great Results

Do you ever feel that some parts of yourself are fighting against your best efforts? That they're holding you back from achievement?

The part of self that most people have the greatest problems with is the "border guard" in charge of keeping you within your comfort zone. In fact, it's common to hear some people refer to their guard as some kind of enemy or mindless adversary.

But this “border guard” isn't an enemy. It's just trying to do the job it's been given. It hasn't been very well trained in the past, however, so it's grown a bit intrusive over the years.

It almost certainly needs a bit of re-educating, but is basically a well-meaning friend.

Remember this: every part of your self is a friend, and not an enemy -- ever. It's only YOUR incomplete understanding that leads you to divide up your self into enemy camps.

If you have an immovable block or obstacle that you just can't get past, it's often because of this border guard in your mind, and your testy relationship with it.

Say you need or want a larger income, but every way you turn seems to block that from happening. Nothing you try ever works, and you've remained short of money for as long as you can remember.

Well, you might want to stop trying to figure it out. In fact, stop looking for a solution altogether. Stop straining. After all, nothing in your “outer” life is going to change until something inside your mind changes. Read the last sentence again. Finding a "solution" will remain basically impossible until you find permission to HAVE what you desire. Forget solutions.

HERE'S THE TRICK: INSTEAD OF STRUGGLING, TRY SMUGGLING.

You can stop straining to take a step or two outside your comfort zone. Just use your power of imagination to bring new situations inside the zone. This is a safe, non-threatening way to smuggle in new ideas and effectively brainwash your border guard.

In a surprisingly short time, your border guard starts thinking that all this new stuff is a natural part of "its" territory, and will begin forcing you to stay inside with all this happiness, prosperity and success.

If you have problems that you've been unable to figure out after years of thinking, then more years of thinking probably won't produce significantly different results. This is a glaring indicator that you've been pouring your energies into the wrong activity.

You see, deciding how the problem gets solved isn't really your job. Your job is to mentally imagine a new situation where the "problem" is completely behind you. It has already been solved. Imagine this vividly, often and excitedly.

This is faith in action. Doesn't matter how impossible a situation seems. God has already created resources and connections you and I could never dream of. So your job is to place your order; and you do this by dwelling on your future vision, not the path TO that vision.

The path that leads to what you desire has already been created. Faith will bring you to openings and opportunities that you'd probably never expect nor imagine. But you do have to put in your order. You do that by clearly imagining what you desire and believing that you will receive it.

In effect, you're smuggling in new "facts" about what belongs inside your comfort zone.

In a surprisingly short time, your border guard will allow you to take the steps that have been placed before you.

But when imagining your future vision, just be sure to add the insurance phrase, "do this or something better in ways that are for the highest good for me and everyone involved."

This makes sure you get solutions that are gentle rather than jarring or abrupt.

I want to see you putting your energy into imagining your result, your outcome, NOT your problem. (And not your solution either, only your outcome.)

Start smuggling in your new future vision and allow your faith to build you a path to that exact, specific future.

Do this and see if you don't notice a dramatic change of fortunes.

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Finding Opportunities in Any Economy

I love sharing life-changing information that helps individuals to become better at what they do and to become better persons. This month's Featured Article is from success expert, Jack Canfield. I am certain, after reading this article, you will experience something new in your thinking. Happy reading.

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Your own beliefs and behaviors are great predictors of your success than any fluctuation in the marketplace. Even when the newspapers splash the word recession across the front page, you can write your own success story.

Master the Art of "Inverse Paranoia"

Start by becoming an "Inverse Paranoid". What I mean by this is, believe that every event in your life is the seed for your greater good; something meant to enrich you, empower you or advance your cause.

Imagine how much easier it would be to succeed in life if you were constantly expecting the world to support you and bring you opportunity.

You can easily verify this belief for yourself. Just think about the last time that a terrible event turned out to be a blessing
in disguise.

A big blessing for me came during the 1970's when I lost my job. I was working at the Job Corps Center in Clinton, Iowa, pioneering new ways to teach underachieving students. One day the word came down that the center was being relocated - and I was being laid off.

While attending a workshop at the W. Clement & Jesse V. Stone Foundation in Chicago, I shared my predicament with the presenter. He happened to be vice president of the foundation, and he immediately offered me a job working with inner-city black and
Latino kids.

I accepted the offer, and what I got in return was a bigger salary, an unlimited budget, and a laboratory for learning the success principles that transformed my life and launched a new career path.

Ask Yourself: What Opportunity Exists Here?

Take the fast track to inspiration by constantly asking yourself: What's the opportunity here? Make this a habit, and you'll stay calm and centered during any event that seems like a setback.

The beauty of this question is that it triggers your mind to respond with positive suggestions. Compare these to the useless information you get by asking yourself the questions such as: Why did this happen to me? Or, Who's to blame for this mess?

If you get passed over for a promotion or your retirement account takes a hit in the stock market, remember to ask: What's the opportunity here? - or one of its inspiring variations:

  • What can I learn from this event?
  • What will I do differently from now on?
  • Who can I turn to as a mentor or coach?
  • What's my next action?
Remember the Three Things You Control

In a way, the economy is just a vague and sometimes ambiguous idea. It refers in a general way to trillions of dollars of goods, services and products by billions of people across the planet. When you face a financial challenge, is it the vast, impersonal economy at work? Or is it your personal economy, which you can directly control?

You can't always count on the economy, but you can always rely on yourself.

Remember, you have absolute control over three things in your life:

   1. The thoughts you think

   2. The images your visualize

   3. The actions you take (including what you say to others)

Your life experience is simply the sum total of the choices you make in these three areas. And you can attract new results at any time by making new choices. Use the ideas and exercise found in this article to do just that!

About the Jack Canfield:

Jack Canfield, America's #1 Success Coach, is founder of the billion-dollar book brand Chicken Soup for the Soul© and a leading authority on Peak Performance and Life Success. If you're ready to jump-start your life, make more money, and have more fun and joy in all that you do, get your FREE success tips from Jack Canfield now at: www.FreeSuccessStrategies.com

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

The Secret to Success is...

So you really want to know what the secret to success is? I guess you do, otherwise you wouldn't be reading this. I...well, John Maxwell can tell you better than I can. Watch the video below:



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