In part 1, I introduced the notion of declaring independence from job dissatisfaction among other information.
Now I want to discuss a few things that can be of assistance for you if you are pondering declaring independence from job or career dissatisfaction. First, I must make mention that everyone’s situation is different and there are unique elements to each one. Given that, take the information that follows only as a guide to how you can free yourself and not as an absolute. Look at YOUR situation and see how this information can set you on the road to job or career satisfaction.
1. What you think about most creates that reality because your resulting emotions cause you to act accordingly with those thoughts. When you have dissatisfying thoughts about what you don’t have or are not getting you create a sense of doubt and procrastination, thus opposing what you really want. In simple terms, your dissatisfied thoughts cancel any thoughts of how to rectify the situation. Because you live in response to what you think and feel, by your imagination and ability to reason you can control or inspire your emotions whenever you like.
2. Satisfaction is not found, it’s a state of mind that you bring into existence by control of your thoughts and reasoning, and you recognize it as the agreeable middle ground. In situations where you are not satisfied, you can choose to or not to continue feeling this way. Your satisfaction, in this case, is not dependent on other people, material things or the fulfillment of conditions or expectations (e.g. a promotion).
3. Job or career dissatisfaction wouldn’t exist if it were not for something the employer owned and offered to attract, motivate and keep you satisfied. You have no control over what the employer owns, offers or takes away except by the effectiveness of your performance or your choice of jobs and employers. You are most inclined to recognize your dissatisfaction when your job or career lacks meaning. So when you are in the wrong job or prohibited from using your talents to fulfill your calling, only you can fix this by changing your thinking, performance, talents, jobs or employers.
With all of these options, why choose to remain dissatisfied? Free yourself from that which is causing you to be dissatisfied.
If it’s your thinking - FREE YOURSELF! If it’s your performance - IMPROVE IT! If it’s your job - CHANGE IT!
Don’t ever feel as if you have no options. You do and its just a matter of which one you choose. However, before you make a choice, make sure you have made an accurate and fair assessment of the situation.
If needed, seek the advice of an objective party (a career coach) who can help you determine your next move.
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